Oral Cancer Blog | Healed and Strong

Open Bible and coffee mug on a rustic porch table overlooking misty Smoky Mountains, symbolizing stillness while waiting for biopsy results

How Do You Cope While Waiting for Biopsy Results?

August 28, 2026

Waiting for biopsy results can leave your mind fighting a hundred outcomes that haven’t happened. Here’s what helped me put down the fear, focus on

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Dein Wille geschehe.

August 25, 2026

I had heard “Thy will be done” my entire life. Walking toward a cancer biopsy, I finally had to decide whether I actually believed those

Smoothie, milkshake, and bowl of soup on a mountain cabin porch table overlooking the Smoky Mountains, representing the soft-food diet after an oral biopsy

Soups and Smoothies and Shakes — Oh My

August 23, 2026

One tongue biopsy. Four people. Everybody carrying something different. This is the story of one ordinary morning, a family carrying unspoken fears, and the biopsy

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Sitting in the Waiting Room of Your Mind

August 18, 2026

The Five-Day Gap Between “Not Good” and My Biopsy The waiting room is not the chairs we sat in at Dr. McConnell’s office. It is

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Not Good

August 17, 2026

Two words. Thirty seconds. And the room was never the same. Editor’s Note: This post documents events from June 4, 2025 — one year ago.

Man standing alone at a misty lakeshore at sunrise, reflecting the emotional denial before a cancer diagnosis

Is Denial Normal When You Might Have Cancer?

August 14, 2026

My Four Days After Hearing “Cancerous” You’d think hearing “cancerous” out loud, from a professional, looking you in the eye — you’d think that word

The Day My Dentist Appointment Stopped Being Routine

August 11, 2026

THE TIME BARGAIN — POST 6 OF 6 A Healed and Strong Series — Time Bargain The Day The Normal Broke I Told Myself It

Empty rocking chair on a foggy mountain porch at dawn, symbolizing the quiet season after facing a denial before a diagnosis

Why Do We Wait So Long to Say What We Already Know?

August 9, 2026

A Time to Keep Silence A Healed and Strong Series — Time Bargain The Day The Normal Broke I Told Myself It Was Nothing Ill

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Whatever This Is, It’s Not Getting Better

August 7, 2026

THE TIME BARGAIN — POST 5 OF 6 A Healed and Strong Series — Time Bargain The Day The Normal Broke I Told Myself It

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The Conversation We Weren’t Having: Hiding a Symptom from Your Spouse

August 4, 2026

THE TIME BARGAIN — POST 4 OF 6 A Healed and Strong Series — Time Bargain The Day The Normal Broke I Told Myself It

Truck driver sitting alone at a dusk rest stop, hands clasped, lost in thought

Why We Ignore Cancer Symptoms: The Psychology of “It’s Probably Nothing”

August 3, 2026

If you’ve got a symptom you’ve been putting off checking out, you’re not weak, and you’re not stupid. You’re running a script almost every human

$The Time Bargain Post 3 of 5, I'll Handle It Monday — a man walking a shattered path through broken clock gears toward a cracked doorway, with Next Monday and Next Week road signs against a fractured MONDAY calendar, symbolizing the cost of delaying a doctor's appointment$

Delaying a Doctor’s Appointment: The Real Cost of “I’ll Handle It Monday”

July 31, 2026

THE TIME BARGAIN — POST 3 OF 6 A Healed and Strong Series — Time Bargain The Day The Normal Broke I Told Myself It