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When a Child Doesn’t Want to Talk About Cancer — Silence Is How They Answer

October 15, 2026

Emma never once talked about my cancer. She made me a bracelet, changed the subject to her cats, and put her hand up whenever anybody

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Mission Accomplished

October 13, 2026

Forty-eight hours after my diagnosis, Emma Grace walked over from the craft table and handed me a bracelet without a word. Ivory and burgundy beads,

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24 Hours Later

October 7, 2026

Twenty-four hours after the diagnosis, I was running on autopilot — work, food, driving, one motion after another. Then I heard one word from behind

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When Cancer Makes Someone You Love Angry with God

September 29, 2026

When cancer made my daughter angry at God, I learned you can’t hand somebody your peace. You can only stay with them while they find

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The 5:23 Text

September 25, 2026

At 5:23 in the morning, one day after I was told I had cancer, my daughter texted me: “I’m just so angry at God.” I

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How Do You Tell Your Spouse You Have Cancer?

September 22, 2026

I had twenty minutes to find the right way to tell my wife I had cancer. There wasn’t one. Here’s what actually happened in that

Truck driving home after receiving a cancer diagnosis

Baby Doll. It’s Cancer.

September 15, 2026

Driving home from the biopsy, I already knew. The hardest part wasn’t the diagnosis — it was knowing what three words were about to do

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The Morning Everything Changed

September 2, 2026

The house was loud with grandkids, the Jeep still smelled like coffee, and I was picking out bananas in the produce aisle when my phone

Open Bible and coffee mug on a rustic porch table overlooking misty Smoky Mountains, symbolizing stillness while waiting for biopsy results

How Do You Cope While Waiting for Biopsy Results?

August 28, 2026

Waiting for biopsy results can leave your mind fighting a hundred outcomes that haven’t happened. Here’s what helped me put down the fear, focus on

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Dein Wille geschehe.

August 25, 2026

I had heard “Thy will be done” my entire life. Walking toward a cancer biopsy, I finally had to decide whether I actually believed those

Smoothie, milkshake, and bowl of soup on a mountain cabin porch table overlooking the Smoky Mountains, representing the soft-food diet after an oral biopsy

Soups and Smoothies and Shakes — Oh My

August 23, 2026

One tongue biopsy. Four people. Everybody carrying something different. This is the story of one ordinary morning, a family carrying unspoken fears, and the biopsy

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Sitting in the Waiting Room of Your Mind

August 18, 2026

The Five-Day Gap Between “Not Good” and My Biopsy The waiting room is not the chairs we sat in at Dr. McConnell’s office. It is